Dear Femslash Kink Exchange Author
May. 7th, 2020 06:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
First of all, THANK YOU for writing something for me. I know creating something for someone else can be difficult and scary and I am so very appreciative you decided to take the leap. I am a creator who prefers more guidance rather than less so I've written the below assuming you are too. If not, please don't feel fenced in by this letter. I'm generally pretty easy to please smut-wise and you can assume as long as something isn't on my DNW list, it's fair game!
Likes: Intense emotions, vulnerability and crying during sex. Dirty talk. Power imbalances. First times, either with each other or altogether. Dubcon. Characters realizing intense romantic feelings in the middle of sex. Blurring the lines of platonic, romantic and sexual love. Characters being pushed past their limits or further than they thought they could go. Rough sex that turns unexpectedly tender. Trust. Bisexual characters, including references to previous or current relationships with men. Topping from the bottom. Fuck or die. Characters struggling to relax enough to orgasm but eventually getting there.
DNW: food involved in sex, feeding/stuffing kink, scat, AUs other than canon divergence, ABO, vore.
Another Life
Cas and Niko being emotional, hotheaded, messy people who can't resist each other. Cas realizing her hero Niko is deeply flawed and wanting her anyway. Pre-canon Niko and underage Cas, with Niko feeling guilty but doing it anyway. Niko manipulating Cas. Cas having experience with women and Niko being a newbie. Pre-canon Cas having no experience at all. Niko cheating on her husband with Cas at any point in the years they've known each other. Niko expecting to be the aggressor but finding herself out of her depth. Years of pining. Sex pollen/aliens made them do it. Cas being desperate for Niko's approval and doing anything to get it. Niko swinging between withholding validation from Cas and nurturing her. Caretaking. Cas's jealousy of both Niko's husband and her daughter.
Star Trek Discovery
Michael/Prime Philippa: Having a secret relationship. Michael pursuing Philippa, who knows she should resist because of their difference in rank. Sex under the influence of sex pollen that leaves them both confused, ashamed and desperate for it to happen again. Impulsive Philippa making a move on Michael that she knows she should regret. Inexperienced Michael/very experienced Philippa. Michael referring to Philippa as "sir" or "captain" in bed. Gorgeous, heartfelt aftercare.
Michael/Mirror Philippa: Sparring that leads to sex. Angry sex. Michael processing her loss of Prime Philippa by fucking her mirror doppelganger. Pseudo incest, because even though Michael isn't Mirror Philippa's daughter, she also sort of is. Both of them pushing the limits of their new bond with kinky sex. Giving and taking orders. Unexpected vulnerability for Mirror Philippa. Sex pollen. Sex lessons. Genderplay (she preferred Emperor to Empress! gender is both complicated and sexy!) Mirror Philippa crossing boundaries, not realizing how much it would hurt her to hurt Michael. Saying "I love you" in the only way a repressed, Vulcan-raised orphan and a person raised in a brutal, fascist society that didn't allow for any weakness can--- with very kinky sex.
Mirror Philippa/Prime Philippa: Go nuts! Get weird! Mirror Philippa seducing or drugging/dubconning her Prime counterpart just because she can? Sounds great. Mirror Philippa hate-fucking the woman who dared fuck her daughter? Yes, please. Prime Philippa turning out to be just as twisted and kinky as Mirror Philippa? I would like to see it.
CR RPF
Ashley-focused fic, either from her point of view or from the pov of someone who adores her. Getting high or drunk on girls night and falling into bed together. Intense platonic bonds and years of sexual tension exploding into kink. Ashley being uncomfortable because she got turned on while being held down filming a scene, and trusting her friends enough to explore that. Filthy banter in bed. Competitive threesomes. Hurt/comfort sex. Chaotic switch Ashley-- even when she bottoms she's got some of that top edge. I know some folks avoid the heavier or darker kinks for RPF but don't feel like you have to do that on my account.
When I did my sign-up I made a big list of all my favorite kinks from the tagset so here they are (but including other kinks as long as they're not on my DNW list is excellent too! sometimes I discover my love for new kinks that way!)
Aftercare
Age Difference
Age Gap Guilt
Age Play
Anonymous Sex
Bad Guys Made Them Do It
Banter While in Bed
Begging
Blindfolded Sex With the Wrong Person
Character A thinks they're seducing Character B but it's actually the other way around
Characters Mistakenly Think They Are in Fuck or Die Situation
Cheating
Consensual Auditory Voyeurism
Consensual But Not Safe Or Sane
corruption of innocence or youth
Crying During Sex
Dirty Talk
Double Penetration
Drugged Sex
Drunk Sex
Dubious Consent
Emotional Manipulation
Experienced/Inexperienced
Fight Sex
Fighting as seduction
First Time
Fisting
fleeting moment of unexpected tenderness in the midst of hate sex
Fuck or Die
Gangbang
Genderplay
Hate Sex Turns Unexpectedly Tender
Having to stay quiet to avoid discovery
Held down
High Sex
Hurt/Comfort Sex
Impregnation (like dirty talking about knocking someone up, someone saying "come inside me" more than actual f-preg style impregnation)
Incest roleplay
Infidelity
Kink Discovery
Kink Negotiation
Kissing Tears Away
Kneeling
large penetration
Laughter During Sex
Light BDSM
Loss of Virginity
Loyalty kink
Mentor/Protégé
Mommy Kink
Non-Consensual Drug use
Non-Consensual Voyeurism
Non-Sexual Kink
Older Woman/Younger Woman
one party knows someone is watching but the other party does not
Overstimulation
Polyamory
Porn with Feelings
Possessive Sex
Praise Kink
Rape Fantasy
Realizing romantic feelings mid-sex
Reconciliation Sex
Restraints
Reunion Sex
Sex as Grief Processing
Sex Between Friends
Sex Lessons
Sex Pollen - Non-Consensual Use
Sex Pollen - Something Made Them Do It
Sharing sexual fantasies
Sparring/Fighting as Foreplay
Strap-Ons
Teen Seduces Older Woman
Topping from the Bottom
Voyeur Gives Directions
Voyeurism
Vulnerability
Watersports